Should You Mind Your Own Business?????
A friend of mines suggested this new topic for discussion:
Would you or should you let your friend know if his/ her boyfriend/ girlfriend were cheating on them? Should u get involved or just mind your own business?
Are there certain circumstances when you would say something and others when you wouldn’t? What are the determining factors?
Well my opinion is maybe address the cheater and tell them that you know and if he/she doesn’t say something then you will b/c you are putting your friendship in an uncomfortable position. I would want my friend to tell me but there needs to be some evidence. Not just hear say or I think.
Toya - September 16, 2009 at 12:17 pm |
I agree totally with Toya. Also, you have to be careful and watch your boundaries with friends. Some may take what you’re saying about their bf/gf as jealousy or hating over their relationship. However though, if it’s the truth and they don’t want to listen or believe you, what else can you do? A good buddy of mine called me to tell me he saw my GF out with some other guy holding hands. At that time we were already broken up so it didn’t faze me. I appreciated him looking out for me though. I’d do the same in return.
Reggie - September 16, 2009 at 1:15 pm |